Since I remember (When I was 6 y.o. to be exact) people have been telling me that everything I do is wrong.
Yes, I’m always the effin’ a**hole, the selfish prick, Mr. Nobody, the biggest failure they have ever known, I mean, even people have called me an attention seeking whore, still, when I look around I see that almost everyone else (Family/friends included) are equally or more fucked up than I am, the difference? I stand for what i believe for, for the things that makes me happy in a personal level, not for what other people or society dictate as a ”Standard way of living” to have a happy life. I stopped giving a flying eff about what women/men/family even “friends” say about being famous, rich, powerful (And don’t forget the story about having a wife, kids, dogs and a SUV means, “Because those things makes you more stable and responsible as a human being”), really? C’mon! those are -at most- a bonus in our lives, not the life itself. Life is not about external pleasure, is about how you feel with yourself, your internal pleasure, your internal happiness.
Anyway, the point of this post and as the title say, I love when people come to me and keep saying the same speech over and over again, because at the end they keep pushing me to never forget why I have chosen the lifestyle that I have and enjoy since 2005, why at my “Supposedly mature age” I keep doing the things that I do, and at the same time keeps me saying every day to this life: “Thank you!”, a life that seems and IT’s pretty easy because I want it that way, because at some degree I worked and keep working my ass off (believe it or not) to have it this way, my way, because till this day I’ve learned to enjoy the most valuable thing in my life, which is something a lot of people have lost as the years come by: FREEDOM.
Yes, freedom, that freedom of doing anything you want to do, the freedom of not doing things because you “Have to”, but because you “Want to”, the freedom of not depending on anything or anyone to do with your life whatever you want to do with it. If at some degree at any given moment you feel that you HAVE TO do things because your “Work, house, money, power, kids, car, girlfriend/wife, status, school, fame, family, religion or society says to do so”, sorry to break your illusion, but you’re living a life of slavery.
So, choose right and choose wisely what do you want for your life, and check if those things that you want are because you really enjoy doing them or because your “Image” before the eyes of the society, are asking for them.
Oh, and because this blog is about picking up women, I should say that freedom conveys independence, a very nice attribute that most women like (When they know what they want, of course).
“Those who surrender freedom for security will not have, nor do they deserve, either one”. ―Benjamin Franklin.